Friday, January 14, 2011

Though i always carry a childish look on my face but the depth of the issues make me pause n look behind.

Sometimes, sitting alone in my room I wonder what does relationships actually mean??
Is it all about just the' give n take' relationship which i often encounter during my daily chores,or is their really an emotional bonding, a substance called blind love???? Do these words exist anymore??I am not talking about a particular relation here, my arena of thought covers every bit of the so called 'rishtey'.
Relationships have become hollow & fragile, there is a need of constant gratification & some material gifts to revoke & cherish them. Everyday newspapers are covered with news of divorce or with some lawsuit for inheritance or may be the ' very cliched saas bahu relationships'.
I have a sincere feeling that the vulture of this is just the expectations .In our fast paced world 24 hours seem short for our own chores n if we expect too much from the other guy a cleavage is bound to be created which may widen at its own pace.
One of my friend once said "Do not have much expectations & your agonies are solved".
I have followed this in my personal lyf & I can feel the difference.